Today I had an interesting thought about losing and Losers.
Can losers be happier or more comfortable than winners? Winners will feel the cheerfulness of achieving but that will be temporary we all know that. Then depression and imposter syndrome hit back, they have to work harder to keep their place in the front line, winning is all about consistency and stability, so they got to prove they deserve, they are under pressure even after the reward.
I believe that losers could be happier if just they saw their loss as it wasn't meant for them. Till that moment, they will be left with regret and deception, not for losing but for not understanding why their efforts were fruitless.
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People always refer to life as a set of trains to catch or a certain number of marathons to run..
In every marathon, the more you run and the more your chances to win increase and the more you are admired and appreciated by people.. People are always fascinated by winners.. But I've always admired losers, I liked the idea of losers who choose to lose, or even, of people who don't participate in this race!
L et me tell you why! Losers who chose to lose understood well that the race wasn't for them, they didn't have neither the energy nor the capacity for it, they knew their limit, or maybe they just didn't win because of fear.. but fear is a myth, if they believed they could win they would have done anything to get it. But their fear was greater than their belief, because they knew their power!
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People who know themselves well are the best, they would never take part in events that don't concern them, they know their values and their capacities..so when they decide to go for a marathon, they do it, because they know that they might win it .. & When they decide it's not for them, they just join the attendees with some popcorn and have fun! & you gotta believe them because they only accept what they deserve.
They know when to stop & when to leave, they know when to dig and go further & when to take a nap.
They have standards in everything, in their desires, in their goals and in their choices.
They just don't challenge others. They challenge themselves, they rise their own standards and their capacities. No care about what is popular, they care about what means the most to them, what is true, what is real, and what suits their targets and the place they deserve.
Remember always that your life is determined by your choices you make now! Your choices reflect you, you future and the image you create of yourself.. the wiser and the more careful you choose, the better your way become.
Choose water to water the trees on your way, to get fruits and some fresh air.
Choose a good companion or become your own best companion but no compromise.
Choose a road that makes you less tired, where you can enjoy and relax more.
Choose a place to live in far away from the hustle and bustle, with peace and stillness to be able to experience the silence and the sounds of rain, storms and the birds singing after the destruction of their neats, thanking nature for giving them the chance to live.
Choose gratefulness over anything.. because it will help you enjoy all what you have, even your flaws and drawbacks.
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